Category Archives: Teresa’s ABC’s of February
Yes. I wrote a post about being consistent and then went totally off the map. Not very consistent. Not what I wanted this series of posts to be like. But hey, life happens and I’ve been dealing with a lot lately. Which brings me to our friend “D” is for Decision.
I’ve been mulling this over for a few days while I’ve also been mulling over some decisions that I need to make. In doing so I came across three quote that speak well to my thoughts on why making an actual decision is important. They are:
Indecision is the thief of opportunity–Jim Rohn
Indecision is often worse than wrong action.–Henry Ford
The indispensable first step to getting everything you want out of life is this: decide what you want.–Ben Stein
I’m a dreamer. I think about what I want all the time. I picture different scenarios in my mind and think about different options. I even play out various outcomes in my mind–complete with interactions and dialogues. Don’t get me wrong, dreaming is important. Dreaming helps us figure out what it is we want. I get stuck, however, in the place between the dream and the reality far too often.
Decision is the catalyst that moves us to action. I can want to be fit and healthy until the cows come home (I think they are close–I smelled them last night–or perhaps that was just the dairy down the street) but until I make an actual decision about how I’m going to act, what I’m going to do, what my attitude will be–nothing will ever change.
I have decided that even though I’m not feeling well right now (doctors, tests, and long stories here that I’ve decided I just don’t want to get into here) there are things I can do to make my situation better. I have decided to:
- get up every morning, put a smile on my face, and have a FANTASTIC day
- exercise regularly (I even got up at 6 a.m. this morning to exercise and I feel GREAT)
- eat healthy things, not too much of them, and LEAVE THE CRAP ALONE (nuff said)
- be honest with myself and give myself a break when it is really warranted, but stop giving myself an easy ride down the path of least resistence
- put my health first
So far (and I realize it’s been a mere 14 hours since this decision was made) I feel like a new person. Making those few decisions listed above has freed me from the bad space I’ve been in lately. Do I still feel like I was run over by a truck? Yes. But somehow, it doesn’t seem so bad today. Am I hungry and wanting to reach out to food for comfort? Yes, but I have a bag load of good nutritious things to eat in the fridge and I’m sticking with that plan.
I’m no longer willing to let my inaction, my lack of commitment, and my presumed inability to decide what is best for me rob me of the person I am supposed to be.
I’m learning that sometimes the things that help us the most–that we need-are the things that seem so small and insignificant. Yes. It would be grand to focus our time and efforts only on the things that are larger than life and amazing and noticed by everyone around. But….it’s hard to maintain any kind of momentum for the long-term focusing only on the fireworks and neglecting rest.
I see this a lot in my life, and not just in the area surrounding my health and fitness. Perhaps it is just the way I’m wired, but I get bored easily. I want things now. While that mindset allows me to jump right in to new projects and things that might seem overwhelming to others, it often leads me to leap from one thing to another, one plan to another, one schedule to another (picture a dog chasing its tail) with the only outcome being frustration.
This was brought home to me this week. I’ve been working with a former (and now current) trainer since the first of the year utilizing his online personal training service. Say hi to Blake (hi Blake). (I have a whole other post brewing going into detail about what he has me doing, etc. so I’ll save that for another day.) Earlier this week, I was reporting my food to him and made the comment that I had eaten the same old vegetarian chili as other days–that I was boring. His response was just what I needed to hear. He said, “Boring is good because it’s consistent. Some people think that healthy eating has to be elaborate…I disagree. I have my staple healthy foods that I eat day in and day out which I love! It’s good to get creative on occasion but consistency is WAY more important.”
Consistency is way more important than flash. I need to quit making things harder than they need to be and just get into a routine that utilizes a few simple things, both with eating and exercise, that I know work for me.
I’ve already shown that I can do it. After all, my poor eating habits and lack of exercise are the result of consistently doing the wrong things. Habits. Consistently doing the same things. That is what got me here. That is what will get me to where I want to be.
Bountiful Baskets. The mere mention of the name fills my heart with the same hope and excitement as a child on Christmas morning.
A little over a year ago I was introduced to this wonderful food coop. In essence, I have the opportunity at the beginning of every week to throw my $15 into the collective buying pool with lots of other people looking for a good buy on produce. Then on Saturday morning, I get to go to the local pick-up site(volunteer when I am able) and come home with treasures like these:
All for a measly $15.
Every Saturday morning is like Christmas. You never know for sure what you will be getting. Sometimes you even get things that you aren’t familiar with and don’t know how to use. I am ALWAYS amazed at how much I get for my $15 and I’ve had very few issues with things going bad too quickly. Being a single person, it is difficult for me to get through an entire basket by myself in one week, so I’ve gotten into the routine of ordering every other week.
Some weeks they will have interesting add-on’s that can be purchased. My favorites are the Mexican pack which usually has cilantro, Mexican grey squash, limes, tomatillos, avocados, a variety of peppers, onions, garlic, etc. I try to get one of those whenever they come up. I know I will have enough to make a good vegetarian chili to keep in the freezer. It’s my favorite go-to lunch or dinner when nothing else sounds good or I’m too busy to cook. My new fast food. I also love the Italian Packs and the Asian Packs. So Yummy!
And, I’ve tried things that I would likely never have purchased on my own. Asian pears are a new favorite—particularly when made into a wonderfully spicy Asian Pear Slaw. I had only one experience with artichokes previously, and while not my very favorite, have learned to love them as well.
I know Charlotte uses Bountiful Baskets because I’ve seen her and her cute Heather at pick up before. It’s great, isn’t it Charlotte? Do any of the rest of you use Bountiful Baskets or another similar opportunity?
In the long run, I want to move my diet into being mostly plant-based and BB is helping me force the issue. I LOVE IT!
What are your favorite vegetable-centric recipes?
Did anyone guess that A would be for Anxiety? Hmmm… It was in a pretty stiff competition with Accountability and Attitude, but for some reason I felt that Anxiety is what I need to talk about tonight.
Hi. I’m Teresa and I’m a Nervous Nellie. Yes, sometimes I feel like I need a support group for this particular neurosis. I’m not anxious all the time. However, it frequently sneaks up on me when I’m not paying attention and before I know it everything I do is overshadowed by that nail-biting nincompoop.
You may be wondering how anxiety fits into the ABC’s of my health and fitness. Well, let me tell you. When I’m anxious I eat. Even when I’m not hungry. Even if I just ate two minutes ago. And….the less healthy, the better it seems to sooth my nerves. Why is that?
One of the difficult things about treating my anxiety with food is that I’m almost oblivious to the fact that I’m doing it. I have to be very deliberate about the food I have available or I just go nuts.
I know that I could find much better ways to cope with anxiety. Meditation. Exercise. Talking to someone about what is causing me worry. The goal for the next few weeks is to recognize when I’m being driven to food by nerves and identify an alternative way to deal with the anxiety–preferably one that will further my health and fitness goals rather than detract from it.
Do any of you deal with anxiety?
What are your coping methods?